Changing school needs

I never can stick with one routine. It works for a few months, but then one or two of the kids need something different and it’s an uphill battle to keep things going at the right times and for the right amount of time, and things disintegrate and I start building a new routine. It’s frustrating at first, in part because I always wonder if I’ve just failed to enforce things enough and that’s why it fell apart. But, as I start to assemble a new schedule I get really excited. There are always things I want to do with the kids, or have the kids do, that can’t fit into a schedule. I look things over and decide what seems best for that time in their education or in our family situation and then just go for it. But when a routine disintegrates and I begin to assemble, I start to remember all of those subjects and ideas that fell by the wayside, and it’s actually pretty invigorating. I’ve let things disintegrate over the past 2 weeks, and I’m finally over feeling guilty, and I’m looking ahead to a new schedule.

Of course, it’s summertime, so that presents some other challenges as well as opportunities. Emma’s off to Girls’ Camp this week. Sue comes for a visit. And then my family comes, and we might head up to the cabin for a few days. After that, the boys have a class at the Rec Center, and then we’re already to August! Throw in swimming lessons somewhere in there, and that’s a fair bit to juggle. But it’s also a lot of learning and growing and fun as well.

I’ll try and remember to post whenever I get things figured out. I keep a record of my various routines under the tab “Homeschool Schedule.”

Can you go grocery shopping without a car?

Our family has been trying an experiment: Can we do day-to-day errands without using a car? We’re on year 6 of our experiment, and the answer 90% of the time is yes! Thanks to healthy legs, scooters & bikes, and public transportation, 90% of the time we’ve found we can get to the places we need to be without owning a car. While this experiment isn’t for everyone, I’d like to share a few thoughts that might be interesting to a biking community.

I’ve received a lot of curious looks and honest questions over the years. But the one I probably hear the most often is: How do you get to the grocery store?

We began going car-less in 2009 when we were living near BYU. At the time we had a double stroller with a large basket underneath. Combining that space with a backpack or two, or having the older child walk so we could use the back seat for grocery space, and we could easily fit a week’s worth of groceries. Usually I went a bit light, and went to the store every 3 or 4 days rather than pack the stroller to capacity, but we were known to fill that stroller often enough.

Even a single stroller can fit quite a bit:

micah in stroller with groceries

After walking so much in Provo, we decided to attempt to remain car-less when we left for my husband’s graduate program at UNM. We spent 5 years in Albuquerque and were fortunate to have 2 grocery stores within a mile and a Costco literally right next door.

Now that we’re back in Provo, I’ve begun using a Madsen cargo bike or “bucket bike” to get our groceries. I’ve absolutely loved it. I think that if someone is going from a car to a bucket bike they might not be quite so impressed, but going from a stroller to a Madsen has been amazing. 🙂  I’ve even taken it up to Costco a few times. (The ride back along University Parkway has an amazing view of the valley, too!)

Costco run with Madsen

From my perspective the only downside to the Madsen is that you need to balance the weight of your load in order to have a safe ride. The first few times I used it I didn’t balance it well, and trying to take a quick 90-angle turn wasn’t as graceful –or even successful– as I wanted it to be! I find it best to put the heaviest stuff (be that a child or a box of Hansen’s soda) right on the seat directly behind me, and then pack the other heavy things under the seats.

Not everyone has 5 kids and needs a Madsen to buy their groceries, of course. Using front and/or back bike baskets, with a backpack if needed, can also suffice for carrying a good amount of food.

So the answer is: Yes, it is possible to get groceries without a car! It will require careful housing choices, creative uses of strollers and bikes, and perhaps a few more trips that you’re used to making. And you will need to use a car occasionally for larger or particularly heavy loads.

It’s work, but to be honest, there’s not a whole lot I’m more proud of than a full and perfectly balanced load of groceries.


Poems on a rainy day


“I Like Rain”

Rain is wet.

Rain can be going down fast

or slow.

I like rain.



“Rain, Rain, Rain”

The rain

Cold, wet.

Nothing to do out there.

The house

Warm, cozy.

Something to do in there?




drip, drop

drip, drop

drip, drop

splash, splash in

the puddles even

though it’s cold

and wet, it’s

cleaning the

earth and it

smells good.

Falling, falling from the





“A Rainy Day”

It’s wet and cool,

Grey and cloudy,

Misty and calm.

Drops slash in puddles

While we splash in puddles.

Inside feels warm, cozy,

When we watch the trees

drip with rain.

Poems on snow today

It feels cold.
It looks soft.
And small.
I feel excited.
It’s fun!
“Snow Snow Snow”
The cold snow.
The fun we have.
The whiteness, the softness.
The sun goes down.
And everyone sleeping.
snow feels
cold. in
bits of ice.
falling from
very fast.
it’s cloudy
and it’s dark.
it’s like
a white
blanket in
small flakes.
falling fast.
with water
Pretty, small white dots
Slowly falling and muffling,
Turning everything peaceful,
And silent. Soft wet white rain
Turns  you calm.
Like a factory –
quick assembly line.
Millions of white pieces falling in millions of parallel lines.
Looking up the white pieces seem to be born out of no where.
No factory.
Just a uniform whiteness.
Clouds. Heaven?
Heaven sending down millions of white specks.
Quiet. Soft. Cold on cheeks.